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1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men suffer sexual abuse before the age of 18. Of those, 1 in 3 suffers abuse before the age of 12.
3 in 10 perpetrators are family members, 6 in 10 are acquaintances, and just 1 in 10 are strangers.
Only 4% to 8% of child sexual abuse reports are made-up, usually by adults in custody disputes.
Body Safety Rules
I am the boss of my body. I don’t have to give or receive hugs, kisses, tickles, or other touches if I don’t want to.
I know where private parts are on the body and their proper names. I know we don’t touch, play, or look at each other’s private parts.
I don’t keep secrets, not even fun ones like getting an extra cookie or staying up late. I especially don’t keep secrets about touching or private parts.
I get to have privacy when bathing, changing, or using the bathroom.
If someone breaks a body safety rule, I have a Safety Circle of adults that I can tell who will believe me and act.
The only exceptions to my Body Safety Rules are health and safety–like getting sunscreen put on or a doctor examining me. But if anyone makes me feel uncomfortable, even if they tell me it’s for health or safety, I will tell someone in my Safety Circle.
Signs of Grooming
A person grooming a child may
Find ways to spend time alone with a child, like too-good-to-be-true offers to babysit.
Be a child’s friend and confidante by filling an emotional need, often excluding others.
Regularly give gifts outside of usual gift-giving occasions.
Ask the child to keep innocent-seeming secrets that may escalate over time.
Touch the child excessively or touch the child’s private parts accidentally, like during tickling or roughhousing.
Normalize sexual behavior, like making sexual comments to or about a child or leaving sexual imagery out.
Some signs of grooming may look like behaviors of safe adults who care about a child. However, if you see a combination of these signs or have a gut feeling that something is not right, act.
Signs of Child Sexual Abuse
Increased fear, anxiety, or depression; acting-out without a clear cause; changing eating habits; nightmares; behavioral regressions like thumb sucking or bed-wetting; refusing to visit particular people.
Sexualized play with dolls; advanced knowledge of sexual acts and language; sexualized play with other children; drawing sexual acts; excessive masturbation; and new words for genitals.
Unexplained stomach aches and headaches; and evidence of self-harm; (less common) bruising, bleeding, redness, and bumps around the mouth, genitals, or anus; urinary tract infections; sexually transmitted diseases; and abnormal discharge.
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Body Safety Rules
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Signs of Grooming
Budin, Lee Eric, and Charles Felzen Johnson. “Sex Abuse Prevention Programs: Offenders’ Attitudes about Their Efficacy.” Child Abuse & Neglect 13, no. 1 (January 1989): 77–87.
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Signs of Child Sexual Abuse
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